The Libran must in all spheres of his life express himself,
and other people must accept that expression generously and
fully. A favorite complaint of the Libran is: 'It's not fair
that he should treat me like that after all I've done for
him!' Of course, 'he' may simply be incapable of responding
as fully as the Libran might wish, but the Libran might find
this difficult to accept.
In any event, a permanent
emotional relationship in which the give and the take are
well balanced is an absolute pre-requisite for Libran if he
is to be happy, and is to develop properly as a person. Hating
quarrels, the Libran has great natural charm and a winning
manner.
The pretty Libran girl
will easily wind her employer round her little finger in order
to secure the extra salary she needs to buy that pretty hat
or that new dress. In avoiding all forms of quarrels and upsets,
the Libran reveals a characteristic tendency to be all things
to all men. Certainly, too, there is indecision - the worst
of Libran faults. 'We must just wait and see what happens,'
he cries and wait he will, putting off a decision, or a mildly
unsavory job, for as long as possible.
Librans have a reputation
for laziness, but often they are not as soft as they seem.
they are usually fairly eager to get what they want, and may
appear lazy simply because of the indecision. A Libran may
adopt a pose of charming inactivity, but while in one case
this may simply be a pause between one activity and the next,
in another it may well be very consciously adopted and used.
The Libran may be indecisive,
but when he does decide that he wants something, he generally
gets it, one way or another. The Libran makes an excellent
and thoughtful host, his home will be comfortable and 'pretty'.
Guests will be greeted pleasantly, and will find the atmosphere
restorative and relaxing.
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